Let’s look at one of the most common practical applications of writing skills: Dating profiles!  How can you practice effective writing behaviors in this area and set yourself apart from the rest of the profiles?

Listen and find out 🙂

 

Here’s the takeaway!  Remember to be honest, up front, and relaxed.  Also, don’t worry about “guarantees” or “good” writing – think in terms of effectiveness.

• Smile in your photos
  • Make sure they show you as a person
  • Use photos you don’t have to crop others out of (looks suspicious)
• Fill out ya damn profile!
  • Who are you, anyway?
  • What are you looking for?  Dating, sex, both?
• Argue in the positive:
  • Talk about what makes you special
  • What you can do for someone else
• NEVER
  • Leave terse or lazy answers
  • Complain about the gender you’re pursuing or invoke stereotypes
• BONUS!  For non-monogamous profiles
  • Explain your situation (open, poly, etc) in simple terms right away
  • Link to your spouse/partner’s profile right at the top
  • Weigh the risks vs. the benefits of using photos and be honest